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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

The idea behind "Full Moon"

I'll always be the full moon of  your starless dark night 
and just like always, just in time, I'll let your sun shine.

And as the dawn breaks, as you soar higher,
I will look forward to look at you look for me.
Wrapped up in frenzy, with wind brushing off your senses
lost in surreality, but you will be captured by a desire to flee.

Slowly I will turn, still keeping an eye on you
from a distance, watching you trying to push open the door.
Smiling as you smile, for the top of the door said "pull"
I'll then return, I will catch you before you hit the floor.

I'll always be the full moon of  your starless dark night 
and just like always, just in time, I'll let your sun shine.

Friday, March 19, 2010

something that you already know............

I was just reading something and I came across Beck's cognitive theory, really helpful to those.... actually to all of us, after all we all are down for a while in our life.
So..... this process involves emphasis on reality based interpretations of information and actively seeks to minimize the many ifs, buts, ands and maybes that may haunt us. We often tend to ‘read into’ situations, things which in reality are not there, it is our own interpretations which are faulty. 
He advanced 3 basic strategic questions to a process of cognitive restructuring

  1. What is the evidence supporting the current conclusion ?

  2. What is another way of looking at the same situation but reaching another conclusion?
  3. What will happen if, indeed, the current conclusion is correct?
Its funny that it'll take you to lose something to notice that someone else is missing something else. And the funnier thing is that this can be easiest to digest at times, and hardest to swallow at others.
I'll follow what i think is right, and if u follow what u think is right, we may no longer walk together, but we'll meet again at the stage called "happiness" .

All I have to say was best quoted in a blog i came across,

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Choices....

A spark in my nerves, a thought in my brain
I may choose to talk, or I wait for it to be read


Its then, when I say "I don't care" too many times
that I care the most, and all of it is left unsaid.
scared of a frowned face and a bruised heartbeat,
comes out a comment on the weather, instead.

If I take you for granted,when I dare to share
minutes will shrink to seconds, I'll jump ahead.
I may not even notice that you are not smiling
already lost, we both are once again misled.

Now, its up to you to listen and see,
crossroads to somewhere, voice and depths of silence
or a road to nowhere, noise and heights of words.
You are exactly where I was, Its your turn now.

A spark in your nerves, a thought in your brain
You may choose to talk, or You can wait for it to be read.